Leading with Love And Not Fixing Your Man
Ever tried to bring your man into deeper intimacy—only to hit a wall of resistance?
You’re not alone. And it’s not because he doesn’t care.
On Episode 281 of Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, Kim and Roberto open up about what’s actually happening when men shut down, and how women can lead with embodied love instead of frustration, fixing, or emotional overload.
(Want to listen to the episode? Tune in through Apple or Spotify here.)
From “I wish you would…” to “Here’s what I desire.”
"Here’s what I desire."
The fastest way to create distance is through blame.
The fastest way to open the door to connection?
Desire.
Kim breaks down the power of owning your wants without shame—and Roberto shares how a simple shift in language changes everything.
Men don’t need more info...
they need embodied energy.
Flooding your partner with explanations won’t bring him closer.
What does? Feeling your grounded turn-on. Your softness. Your certainty.
Roberto shares how curiosity naturally arises when Kim stays in her power and lets her body do the talking.
The fear is real—and it’s primal.
Fear is REAL.
Resistance isn’t just stubbornness. It’s survival.
Roberto and Kim unpack how the nervous system protects us from change—and how safety, slowness, and sovereignty make healing possible.
You can go first… and give him space to catch up.
Whether it’s breathwork, dance, or deepening your own pleasure...
Your embodiment is the most powerful invitation.
When your energy is magnetic, he will lean in at his own pace.
Retreat space changes everything.
Private and group retreats at Phoenix Rising create the safety, structure, and sacred guidance you both need.
No roles. No pressure. Just space to land, remember, reconnect—
and choose each other again.💫
If you're ready to stop pushing and start inviting…
Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.
Here’s what you can expect November 20–24:
• A room full of couples choosing intimacy on purpose
• Daily practices that build trust, safety, and deeper connection
• A steady container that helps your body relax and let go
• Time together where the energy of the group lifts you higher
If your body is tired of trying to do it all alone… come be held by a room that wants what you want.
This isn’t magic… but it will feel like it.
Spots are intentionally limited to 5 couples to keep the container safe and intimate. Secure your preferred room before they’re gone.
This is your moment to explore what’s possible when you lead with love.
👉 Reserve your retreat spot here today!
PS: If November doesn’t fit your calendar, our February retreats are also open at the same link.
👉 Or book a free Exploration Call here to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit.
With Love,
